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I only check the internet for New episodes of Better Call Saul, Raised by Wolves & Swoozie vids.
I appreciate u and everything u do for this country!
didnt know you could send money
@Niceguy huh
@@FruitaFuka does he fart?
@@ceedrix9263 yeah its super thanks
More of these videos pls! :)
Yo!!!! Hi!!!
😁
Yoo what you doing here
Really appreciate the tip Psych! I had something else planned for this vid and now u guys want more… decisions decisions
Oh snap look at you! It’s so random seeing you here
you know I think swoozie's dating problems largely come down to the fact that he constantly dates people that have to get a flight just to see him again, this man cannot do long-distance
As my grandfather used to say, “Amor de lejos amor de pendejos.”
@@dannyboyzuniga9378 beautiful
I agree. Said the same thing
@sWooZie You should focus on finding someone nearrerererere to you location. That's how I got my wife bro.
@@dannyboyzuniga9378 Your grandfather was a wise man.
This is a perfect example of why "situationships" don't work. If she's not your official girlfriend, she has no reason to be loyal. If he's not your official boyfriend, he has every right to entertain other women! If you like her enough to feel jealousy, ask her to be your exclusive girlfriend. If you don't, a "Damian" will come around and do it first 😩
learned that and agree
Wise words Nikki
Bruh
Words of the saints advice right there damn that was facts
True to an extent. Like swooz said he did have a girlfriend and the same thing happened🤷🏾♂️
10 years later and Swoozie is still dealing with the exact same woman problems😂😂😂😂😂
I don't have any friends to talk about these girl/relationship stuff. So whenever I watch a Swoozie upload, it lowkey kinda makes you feel like you're there, listening to the actual conversation IRL.
I'll be your friend, one piece style.
You know girls can be friends too
Chasing women is crazy I understand when u simp is SAD and u become desperate this happened to Me during the events leading to prom I dame their got played by three fine girls two at work and one at school they played me but still wanted to star at me eventhough they had boyfriends my cousin said if they look at u that want u that just ain't it though I literally blew this girl phone thought she was going to be my prom date and it felt like I ended up developing feelings for her because I still continue to think about her to this day I will however get over her when I can and to think they have boyfriends I feel bad I did that to her that's I decided to stop chasing women because of that because I get desperate and sad over someone I wasn't going to get then when I say I don't want women I'm gay but little do they know I ain't gonna get hurt I don't wish anyone to get hurt like I did or played like I did it isn't worth it
@@Mikoto13 what, no way
Hey Swoozie you’ve literally made me actually get out of bed and do morning routines and get over anxiety, you be giving us advice but for me your helping me get over with morning routines, Keep up the great work Swooz!
🤜🏽🤛🏼
I exactly know what you mean. I love that for you 🥰
swoozie is that one guy not in a relationship that everyone goes to for relationship advice
That’s me bro it’s so annoying but I like to help ppl with their problems
That is me I’m like red skull I guide people to a treasure I can’t possess
True
exactly
here before this comments gets 1000 likes
So not to sound mean... but I first became a fan of swoozie back in 2011 when my high-school girl friend broke up with me. I thought his relationship stories and advice were so insightful and relatable.
11 years later, I'm married with a child. And Swoozie seems to still be having the same relational issues.
I'm not saying you need to settle Swooze, but maybe it's time to start dating women, instead of girls.
he goes for very attractive women that can attract alot of men just like him, seems like they just use him for attention.
You're right, he should stop going for attractive girls that are in their prime finessing men and stop thinking ''I wanna find someone who likes me back for me and I like them for them.'' That's very rarely if ever going to happen.
He's very successful and has done extremely well for himself, but his approach at dating is just horrendous, I don't think he knows how women think and their psychology.
you're married with a child? sus bro (jk I know what you mean)
That, and also locality. Most of his dating stories involve a flight and extended texting from a long distance.
I think it’s more of his Internet personality 😂 plus less people would watch a guy making cartoons about being married with kids I guess? Not sure tho
Pretty much the same, I found him years ago when I had no real experience with women and Swooize was like this door to this other world. Then I grew up, realized women are people and there are people that care about you and people that don't and you find that out through friends, family, coworkers and past relationships. Then you start making smarter choices.
I'm in a long term relationship and we have our issues but we don't have "drama".
It kind of makes me sad seeing him still have these problems, it's like he hasn't made any real change in this part of his life. This is something I wish would get addressed. He's having the same issues as he did a decade ago. There's something he's not letting go of or realizing and it's pretty sad.
Just to put out there, there are actual good wholesome women out there …. yes they do exist. being honest, real and vulnerable is one of the greatest strengths to ever have.. knowing the type of character you are and what you want in someone definitely helps with healthy boundaries, etc. super cheesy, but be true to you and know what kind of company you want around, makes all the difference
This is terrible advice bro I can't even hold you
@@ItsGooseIsland how? u trippin
@@ItsGooseIsland You sound traumatized. Heal.
Great advice for men and women-anyone- because if you truly know what you want and what you deserve you will NOT ever settle for less. You can be vulnerable and honest and upfront but the millisecond you feel you can't trust the other person you're investing in it is time to move on! Respect yourself 1st and the rest will follow
@@ItsGooseIsland - it's fine general advice. Being open and vulnerable is important, but the timing is also important. Don't be weak when she needs you to be strong, and don't be shut off and closed down when she needs you to be open.
At any rate though, Swoozie's problem seems to come much more from the fact that he near exclusively dates girls who need to take a flight to see him again. Dating within your county, state, or at least country would help.
as soon as she said “its been a year i’m still not completely over my ex” i would have been out SO FAST
yeah exactly
She will punish you for not being someone else. Men, respect who you are.
Swoozie: "so i meet this gurl..."
Me: *starts giggling while grabbing my dinner*
Narrator voice in my head:
Oh shit, here we go again ..
Fr
I've watched your PLclip for, like....11 years. And you still give that positive comforting vibe that helps my anxiety melt away. Thank you for bringing a smile to this night shift nurse aides' face! :D
Swoozie ain't ever been caught lacking with his fits, they on point every time
*hair flick emoji
@@swoozie you ain't got no hair tho 😭
@@ozan8636 out of pocket 😭😭
@@swoozie drippy
@@ozan8636 💀
Even someone as big as Swoozie has relationship issues like this. Eye opening.
Swoozie seems to have both forgotten some of his past advice and needs to be willing to confront more and get into arguments if needed. He keeps trying to act okay and push on but he tells us openly his heart hurts. He needs to let go of his reluctance to confrontation.
That, and break the playful touch barrier early on. Plan out his telephone and in person conversations to include stories that involve adult situations. Make seggual innuendos because you need to be clear that you are a full grown adult and women need to serve a full purpose if they are around you. Never hesitate to kiss the girl once you've established rapport and you've already touched each other comfortably. Pace things so that the escalation takes two steps forward, then one step back. Show involvement with other women. Establish an expectation that she needs to be beneficial to you and have the ability to do things simply because you asked her to do it. Limit your verbal compliments to one per day and tell her when she's earned it, and that the rest is downhill from there... Learn female intimate anatomy and have a proven system of how to get the results you wish to have behind closed doors... Just a few things I had to learn the hard way cuz women expect you be proficient at this stuff and they don't want to teach you.
@@busyrand yikes. I can’t speak for all other women but this is not the way
I’m going to say something controversial I don’t think Swoozie is “looks”attractive like he has money he has popularity he looks like he smells good. But his looks doesn’t work and if you’re trying to find girls in places like LA Miami party cities is all about looks most of the time and if it’s about money you have to have a lot of it.
Because realistically everybody got money in LA
@@masochistic_lele4414 Yea, he doesn't have the "bad boy" look. No tats or rough around the edges look
@@busyrand These are all incredibly huge red flags. No one needs to go to THIS much effort for you whether your a guy or girl.
Life tip for both guys and girls: if the person randomly brings up someone without any reason that’s who they will mess with or leave you for. You’re welcome
She’s gonna cheat on me with her nephew? Damn 😔
dude this literally happened to me, we were just chilling watching a movie and she brings up this random guys ig dm cause she thought it was funny and I was lol what a goofy guy hitting on you, we broke up 3 weeks later then 1 week later she's with him LOL
Facts bro, needed this FDB 😤
Ain’t this the truth😐
Damn she gonna cheat with her dead relative damn g 😭😭😭
Man, your cousin gave you a Kevin Samuels-like message when it comes to knowing your 'value' and it was on point! I love it!
"Sometimes you have to be a lion to be the lamb you really are"
I think this better applies to gentler dudes to remind them that you gotta stick up for yourself sometimes, so ppl don't take advantage of your kindness, I don't like being confrontational, but that's sometimes necessary in order to send a message that your boundaries have to be respected, and I'd rather be respected than nice
This is so true.👍💯 You will not get what you want out of a relationship if its not reciprocal
Ay the first time I heard that was from Dave Chappelle quoting his mother in an acceptance speech. Is that what you're also quoting or is that a common turn of phrase ? lol
Definitely what I would class swoozie as back in the day of these stories
@@idunnodoyou yessir I got that from Dave Chappelle lol love that quote
Swoozie chooses the women he chooses purely for their looks and then gladly ignores all the red flags.
Swoozie out here giving us real life advice that will stick. Keep up the amazing work!
Sending the elevator back down to you!
Thank you I don’t like walking
Nah dude. 100000% sure she was clapping her ex while she made this dude wait 😂
Swoozie is the type of man to let you know even of his simp situations. Swoozie, This is absolutely so comforting to hear that even you go through this. You’re the best!
I'm feeling you swooze honestly. I just kinda roll with the flow or energy put out now. Never be afraid to pull back. If the person pulls back, you just roll with it and get on with your life. Gotta keep those emotional attachments in check. Makes life and social shit easier tbh. Full jumping and investing can be addicting because your hit your brain with all these chemicals, but you gotta remember, that's just you making yourself feel that way, based on the other person.
This has been me for the past year and it’s been easy to let shit go now. Had multiple situations where I felt people pull away and instead of attaching myself and trying harder to make it stay like I would 10 times out of 10, I just let it be and it feels better honestly
Nothing makes me laugh more than your videos
Mad credit for being so wholesome. I think that matters, and for the right person, it's going to win them over.
Don't do long distance relationships.
As a lady who has been Team Swoozie™ for almost 10 years now (gosh!) I think your friend gave some good advice. So important to know your value, and always approach every situation with respect and compassion. Life is messy and we are all trying our best out here. I'm glad you had a genuine connection with that girl and I hope she finds what she is looking for, but I hope you can find someone that wants the same things you do soon! I love your stories, but the story I look forward to the most is the story of you getting that dream girl! Always rooting for you dude
When Swoozie shows up in the video, you know it's gonna be extra🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Playtime... OVER
@@swoozie bro that "i don't have time for this" after getting called out hits to close to home 😔💔
NO, NOW YOU LISTEN TO ME! why should i waste my time at school? i am super famous on youtube. tell me, dear mike
@@DopeDevastation you don’t even know bro
@@daddyyjoker692 oh ik, dealt with it so many times its unbelievable
If a girl tells you, she broke with her boyfriend a year ago and she hasn't gotten over it but expects you to be patient....RED FLAG!!!!!
It depends. If she was mistreated by her ex then you can't expect her to get over that sort of thing in a year. But I guess "im not over my ex" implies that there is some sort of lingering affection there?
They coulda been together a long time and been very close. U don’t know the situation
@@MsCatfish4 nah bro just find a dif gal
Swoozie is great at explaining his experiences to us in a way that we can relate and thats what makes me admire his content even more
These are my favorite type of Swoozie vids, it's so personal but still hilariously relatable. Knowing your worth comes with no compromise! Great vid, hopefully we get more lmao
His storytelling is out of this world
Y'know when i first saw this video i thought i'd be enjoying it for laughs but, damn did this hit closer to home than anything else. Almost exact same thing happened to me couple of months ago. She still to this day lingers in my mind, but, after hearing the ending i legitly broke into tears. Thankfully now i'm doin better, but i'm glad this acted as an eye-opener to me, maybe now this'll help me improve.
I can't believe it's been 12 years I've been watching this MAN. And I still get just as excited when he drops a video.
Same!!! Lol
I would ditch hanging out w/ co-workers at the pier for you Kate. Thanks for the years of support!
Oh preach been there !
Yea I just realized I've been watching since "High school Girls and Back rubs"😅😅
Man swooze you deserve better man best of luck to you!! I keep picking the wrong people too, at this point if I’m excited about someone I don’t bother cause clearly I’m always wrong lmao! I’ve been scammed out of money too many times now tbh
Oh good GOD I just got to the part of the video where swoozie starts throwing out PUA bs…. Maybe there’s a reason why you keep winding up with the wrong ones? Fuuuuuck damn dude RETHINK, RETHINK ITS NOT TOO LATE!
I came here looking to laugh and get my mind off some heavy stuff but I NEEDED to hear this. Always coming through with the facts Swoozie. Such a blessing 🙏
man swoozie is the man we all need to help create our image, and not to let things overwhelm us and bring us down, thanks for making this content and just voicing your opinion
I'll always be simping for you, Swoozie ;) I wish I could find a nice guy like you, who can make me smile and laugh and cheer me up on my worst days.
You're awesome and hilariously effortlessly funny 🤣
This man could make a trip to the grocery store sound interesting
Alr Swoozie, you got a head start on what your next video gonna be about
Random but haven’t met someone else called Tessy before that’s cool
Agreed 😂💯🔥
Me personally, wouldn’t of gone past the “I’m still not over my ex” I respectfully would have jus let her deal with that on her own time.
The minute thats leaves her mouth
Recreational use only. No gf material
This is on point. I'm also gonna give advice too. This is bound to happen if you are out in the market of dating. So this isn't woman or man only..both sides can play this "game" which if any of them do this game they deserve to kick rocks. They are going to say along the lines of "I think we should see other people." When they do this accept it and agree, no emotion, no nothing. They'll do one of two things either they will 180, or they will separate. If they 180 and try to get you back you tell them to kick rocks. This game should not be played and if you are going to play it you deserve to kick all the rocks.
Swoozie, you always take care of everyone! When was the last time someone took YOU out on a date and paid for you? You deserve to be taken care of too !
I love the new camera angle, Swoozie! Really gettin' experimental with it!
If you wanted some advice: You can't change the other person but you can change yourself. If they're doing sketch stuff that infringes on your boundaries, let them know and also honor your boundaries if they continue to infringe on them and let them know and if needed back out of that relation (whether romantic or platonic)
The day Swoozie gets a perfect mutual married relationship is the day the world gets the good ending and the credits roll
And the end theme is “never going to give you up”
Honestly Swoozie, one of the reasons I enjoy watching your videos is because you are a nice guy. Your cousin’s advice is fine for someone who wants to hookup with alot of women but not for a guy looking to be in a committed relationship with one person. You may have to reevaluate your preference list. I know the right woman is out there for you. Good luck!
Not necessarily. Someone who wants to be in a committed relationship with one person does need to "know their value." In short, if they sense that they're not receiving the same amount of affection that they are giving, then they need to address that with their partner. The effort that one puts into a relationship (quantified by affection given) is going to strengthen *that person's* feelings in the relationship, *not* (consistently) their partner's. So both people need to be willing to put in effort. One person can't always be on the receiving end or they will get bored.
@@isaacsmith6482 I think that the advice given by the cousin just really radiates that "Alpha male" mindset that's honestly just really toxic masculinity- of course it's good to know your value but the specific terms "high value" and "low value" male almost always pertain to this really toxic mindset, which is why I think OP is saying it's not good for long term relationships- Sorry if I couldn't explain properly I tried
@@MiaChanzz And this is why you don't ask females for dating advice smh 🤦🏿♂️
@@MiaChanzz But that's what you are...
I definitely agree with you! Never cheat just tell the person you have feelings for someone else and move on, it’s less hurtful
Bro I’m sooo convinced that I’ll never find someone who truly likes me the same way I like them. I relate to way to many of these stories, wishing you good energy my man!
The "street fighter DLC" remark took me out! X'D In all serious, Imma just outright and say I commend you for putting yourself out there over and over knowing you have trust issues, or things don't end up working out in the end. I feel that takes real guts, and I applaud your sense of maturity that even though you get knocked down, shit happens, it doesn't harden you nor turn you bitter towards dating, and/or seeing people.
Granted, all of this is what I see on the surface level and there's shit I don't see behind the scenes, but I felt this needs to be said and isn't said enough. Your content is amazing and I wish you the world~ 😊
I dream of a day when Swoozie will turn on the camera with a girl next to him. After a couple seconds of awkward pause, he will say "Hey guys, this is my girlfriend..."
Man forgot his number 1 rule: “I ain’t nobody’s plan B, either you choose me or you lose me.”
Keep your head up, King. Remember what you taught us.
Yeah, this seemed very contrary to his other videos, made it interesting. He gave different advice.
@@cruetusnex Hes interring the manosphere, he’s on some incel stuff. Don’t take that advice.
@@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 I recognize the insecurity in his comments. Hope he moves on from the incel phase and finds healthy people to better influence him. Including himself, without getting egotistical and believing being toxic or 'an alpha' is something viable to be. Bad mindsets.
@@filleswe91 @Actually I’m Not Really Sure Yet agree with both of you. It does seem that way. The advice was awful and definitely pushed incel energy.
@@cruetusnex Yeah I had to do a double take on what he wrote. But anyone using the words "Rex" (king in Latin) or "King" the way he did is not based anywhere in reality. Almost like he believes he's above others, which never gives anyone any lasting healthy relationships with other human beings.
Understand that you will NEVER be good enough for the wrong person. Thinking like a lion means that you choose her second as you're primary. If I receive something so easy, I won't value it as much, but if I worked for it, I know not to play with it by throwing away something of high value.
Swoozie back at it again with another strong story with something to learn
This one kind of hit close to home, not exactly the same situation though. Either way, the advice is solid if you out there living your life on your terms and not making your whole life about someone else at the expense of your goals and they are not giving the same energy don't chase. Awesome video,l has been a swoozie fan since I saw you on that video game reality show.
OK BUT WE LOVE THE WAY SWOOZIE ALWAYS HITTING US WITH THE FIRE FIT 🔥🔥🔥
Man I feel so bad for Adande, can a nice, honest, and beautiful woman please get with him already so that he can stop getting his hard broken by these trifling girls 🤦♀️
Thanks! Tacos on me tonight Swooz! 😎
Ms. JaeJae, next time I'm in town I'm snatchin u and ur whole fam up for Tacos!! Thanks so much for the tip bay bay!
@@swoozie i have a crush on you and im a dude
@@swoozie buy alot of toilet paper TRUST ME
calm down buddy
Burritos 🌯 are better
I don't know how, but in almost every twist and turn of my newly adult love life, Swoozie comes in clutch with the vid 😂 God bless you bro. I'd tip if I had more to spare but for now, thank you for always keeping it real
the advice at the end is spot on. Thanks for sharing this story swoozie!
Fn no builds soon???
Swoozie you're a cool guy. You're spitting the truth about relationships. Mad respect 😎
As a natural born people pleaser, it is true. Have to respect yourself and know when to put in the effort and when to let the other person fly away.
"Why can't I just meet a girl, like a girl, the girl like me, and then everybody's happy?!" When I tell you, I felt this in my soul! LOL
That’s idealistic and not how relationships work.
@@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 Clearly.
@@actuallyimnotreallysureyet6360 I mean that’s how all relationships start no?
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 yo, who hurt you brother?
It's about time sWooZie learns his lesson.
Okay but swooz is looking fresh. The jaw line is popping. You’re looking clean man. The work you’ve been putting in is noticeable man keep it up
Now to watch the video and feel sad 💅
Barely over a minute in. A girl told me she liked me and she didn’t want to have those feelings
I’m ready for the pain
Swoozie I know you'll never see this but... , I've been watching you forever now and you never fail to make me stop smiling. NEVER STOP ❤❤❤
That's really good advice for everyone. Don't be waste your time on someone who won't waste their time on you.
And it's hard when you know you heard something fishy but instead of addressing it right then and there and letting whatever happens happen then, you just take it in that information in and either call them out on it at a later date or never.
I feel for my boy Swoozie. Bro always going through it
Damn, I really needed that ending advice. Some thoughts had been bugging me, they ain't bugging me no more.
Simpin ain't pimpin
Glad to hear that man.
Also f*ck these bots.
Yes
Please don't treat women like that.
Gracias por el vídeo. A veces uno olvida que debe ponerse por encima de las relaciones, tus propias metas y eso. No ser Simp, ser un león 🦁 😄
I LOVE your videos and I can't wait for the next one😁
Thanks for the great story, Swoozie! That quite confirms my theory, that a good guy would never be called Damien
I love you swoozie 💖 keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll find the right one!
I love everything your cousin said. Swoozie, you are sweet, funny, nice, generous, creative...need I go on? How are you out of this girl's league? HOW? Let me tell you, she is out of YOUR league. She needs to get on YOUR level and doesn't deserve you if she can't see how golden you are when she has you. I fully agree with your cousin. Be that lion and believe it!!
"You will never get money chasing these women but you will always get women while chasing this money." - Mark Andre
That’s going in my yearbook quote
@@notfood5720 lol
@@notfood5720 you are food NOWM NOWM NOWM(chewing on a squeaky yellow teddy bear while i have sharp teeth and i am a family guy bear).
I’m going to live by this now 🤙
I think future or hoodville said this l don't remember clear tho
You’re the best Swooz! Thanks for all the videos of funny experiences, blogs with advice, instagram reply backs and how you’ve changed my perspective towards relationships of all sorts throughout the years! You a real one! ✌🏼
Why dose it say $9.99 next to your name?
@@saintsummerz he tipped the same amount to swoozie
@@byakuya_nati1225 imaging giving a rich random person on the internet money lmao
@@saintsummerz It is his choice. I doubt the decision making tho
Thanks Migz'y! Def have a bit more advice coming. I have a few friends who hit me for advice just to ignore it so its v refreshing to hear its getting received well!! More def inbound!
Felt this story deep in my soul. I feel that everyone has experienced this in some form at one point.
Why do Swoozie videos always hit where I need them too ...
Keep up the good work bruv
Damn! I wanna meet someone like Adante. He sounds fun to be around and sincere.
That head turning at the exact moment of the end in the music was just a masterpiece. Bravo to you sir
wow- someone caught that. I'm impressed. I was in the edit thinking no one would
Time stamp
100% agree! 5:05
I thought the same; scrolled down here to see who else appreciated it!
5:05
You are doing God's work Swoozie!
He comes back when the world needed him the most
Trueee
Damn, dude. I haven't watched your stuff in a long while, but felt drawn to this one for some reason. Turns out this is almost an identical situation I went through back in February.
Always get butterflies from a new Swoozie video. Can’t wait to see what stories this new lion mode will bring 🔥
swoozie is the only man who is living life higher than anyone possibly can
The first red flag brother was her saying that she’s still trying to get over her ex. That’s her indicating that she’s emotionally unavailable and will take any type of “attention” she can get to validate her low self-esteem. I can empathize with you on this one brother!
Yep especially after talking for a year. Most women if they serious will drop their ex
Preach
At the very least I can respect that she was vocal about that before they became official, she's better than a lot of ppl who hide their baggage from their previous relationships.
They always go back to that one ex smh 🤦🏾♂️
Absolutely none of that stuff matters. Swoozie had action and access with her. All he had to do is spark strong, gut-level attraction. She was clearly open to it based upon how easily the other guy broke the touch barrier, and went on a simple date at the Pier. He placed himself in the Friendzone. He was her famous, harmless pet who treats her to dinner and gives her a place to stay whenever she feels like pulling him out the box.
She sounded toxic. If you gotta play games she's toxic. Not many but some chicks are like the nice guy in that scenario. I got there in my 20s like "I'm done all dudes are the same" then I met my guy. He was like me a nice person who was just looking for the one to settle down with. It was so refreshing how open & vulnerable we spoke. We appreciated each other's commitment. Toxic people get bored with people like us because toxic craves drama. And to us drama is exhausting. I literally drove away the 2 exes before my man because I wanted to work hard & save for a home to have kids in but they didn't want to grow up. And now when I tell you how much I love my Good Guy. It wouldn't even get to the "coworker gave me a massage" part because I literally don't want any attention from any dude. Don't want to be close buddies. And any friend of my dudes I treat like a distant bro, but all the while gushing annoyingly about my man. Maybe it's cause we're married, been together for 9 years, & are about to have our first child. But since the beginning even when dudes look at me in traffic I'm just staring straight ahead ignoring them like "Eww yeah right" because no dude could measure up to my man. We once had these friends who were also a couple but then later found out they were swingers & were interested in us. The second I realized they were trying to flirt with me I shut it down. Told my man, & had an awkward but honest talk with them. I hope you find a serious lady that doesn't want drama but just wants to genuinely get to know you & appreciate your time. I'm now looking for chick friends & it almost seems like dating back in my late teens-early 20s. Like they just want drunken drama at the club/bar & to bitch about everything & here I am like "I just want to chill & play video games but also I just want a nice girl to be friends with" but everybody has this competitive bad bitch energy that it's difficult finding a friend like me. So I kinda get it in a different way.
Been watching swoozie for a long time. One of the biggest lessons ever…. Simpin ain’t Pimpin
Swoozie you helping me a lot with a very nervous time man just love your videos man
Communication is the key to any relationship, and it takes a level of maturity that (probably going to get a lot of downvotes for this) most people just don't have. It's hard to be fully open with a spouse, much less someone you just started dating. But that's what it takes to make things work, and most people would rather take the emotionally "easy" path of staying quiet or dancing around the other's feelings because we favor short-term payoffs over long-term ones. I wholly agree that just coming out and saying what happened, owning it, and moving on is the proper adult way to handle things.
But I will say this: at first she might have been testing you (something that I wholly disagree with) and seeing if she can make you jealous, and then when you were cool with it and weren't physically there, she went along with this other dude's advances. Not saying it's your fault, but that's almost assuredly what happened.
Dope video swooz you’re cousin is spitting straight facts. Hope you fine the one and I really felt that part about liking someone but it doesn’t work out been there too many times
How did you donate money?
@@BoeingOfficial The “thanks” button
swoozie i just wanted to thank you for everything :) i’ve been watching for years and this channel is definitely my safe space.
Swoozie you have always made me smile even when I was having a bad day I can just come home and watch you. Love you broo
5:28 i feel that man :/ wish everyone could just fit like that but ig we all learn from our past, though it do b sad when your fine and have these great qualities and beliefs and then man, the other person doesnt as much as you, it sucks
Hope you find the one one day swoozie
Swooz, you out here learning some game! DHV, DLV, those are some classic concepts. Highly recommend picking up the book The Game or Mystery's book if you wanna get into this stuff a little more. Your cousin sounds like he's studied it already, good man!
Love you man, always giving me advice when I need it like you come here and just say what I need to hear
I got out of a long term relationship half a year plus ago and it still eats at me.. she said we’d still be best friends but is with some new guy and has practically cut me out in every way but keeping me on socials just so she can say “ I haven’t cut you out if you’re still on my lists “
If I’ve learned one thing from the goat that is swooz is that we can wear our hearts on our sleeves but still radiate king behavior! It may hurt like hell but like swooz said don’t give them 100% if they give you 10%
Know your worth and move on to better futures !:) thanks for reminding me bro you a real one !
Imagine the stories swoozie gonna be telling his grandkids in 2070
I mean the man already 42
@@mikethepokemaster2012 wut ?
fr hes so wise lol
@@filds1 yea he is
@@mikethepokemaster2012 Black don’t crack. I swear he was like 28 for the past 10 years.
i always get hyped when a new swoozie vid gets posted… you just know your in for a treat
Swoozie is one of the only people that can pull off being bald
Let me also explain this to you G when she asked you if you were cool with that that was your chance to set boundaries and you gave her a way out through “scenarios” all she’d have to do is lie about it and you’d never really know for example how “some coworkers” turned to “a co worker” she knew how to dance around the conflict so as to avoid a direct confrontation with you so that if you brought a direct confrontation to her you’d look crazy or like you were tripping a lot of folks do that that’s why they say “when you give them an inch they’ll take a mile” in a serious relationship what I’ve come to understand is you can not fear conflict or confrontation with your partner you must meet that shit head on
The right person doesn’t give you butterflies 🦋 they give you peace ☮️ ❤️