Situationship

the groceries/no basket part was so damn accurate 😂😭

Never expected Swoozie to fall into the hell of a situationship

i liked seeing swoozie be the “bad guy” for once. you’re always getting done dirty

A relationship advisor openingly showing that he also has flaws
That's why we respect Swoozie

Man it’s good to have somebody sharing their experiences to help the future generations

I fully believe Swoozie carries a little notebook during every past past and future drama for content 😂

For real swooz, your friends were right. Her trying to one-up you is a serious red flag. Relationships aren’t a competition.

I’m convinced swooze can’t get married because if he does he’ll run out of good stories to tell.

You'd be a fun drinking buddy with all these stories.

Situationships are so so hard.

Probably won’t read this comment , but I did a lot of deep diving the other night and I realized I had more confidence to talk to girls thanks to you Swoozie. Watching your videos made me feel like I could talk to anyone so thank you for that ❤️

The volume of girl drama that Swoozie experiences can't be normal lol

Swoozie really the mvp of story telling 😂

Swoozie relationship advices are back! Love you Swooz, you been helping people for over 15 years! You deserve a therapist certificate by now lol

It’s crazy how you’re not using music and I’m hooked in more then when you do use music, 11/10 storyteller

I was once in a situationship for three very simple reasons
1. I was horny
2. I didn't think she and I had enough in common for us to be in a relationship
3. I didn't think I could do better

As someone who was a situationship for like 2 years, I’m glad you decided to end it completely. It’s super difficult in the beginning, but the mental and emotional exhaustion ain’t worth it 😮‍💨

Swoozie, I wanted to say that I do appreciate that you are always so real with us. Thank you for that realness. It means a lot.

Swoozie its crazy how I started watching you in 3rd grade and now I'm about to head to college in a year. Thanks for bringing interesting content throughout these years. You are my childhood.

Situationships are complicated. Like a lot of people (I imagine since I've never been in a situationship before), you're emotionally invested in someone, but not as much as you could because of a lot of reasons (notably you still feel a type of way with her). I think you did good by sitting down and having a mature conversation about just ending the whole relationship

Situationships are so so hard. Thank you for always being this vulnerable!!

I have been there. Situationship ended when I told the guy to be my boyfriend, and he said you are single. I went home hurt. Situationships create trust issues and anxiety.

This video could've not come out at a better time for me. Swoozie thanks bro, I really needed this in this hard time in my life.

LEARN! TO! COMMUNICATE! communication is a skill you have to actively use or it deteriorates. all parties involved need to communicate what they want or dont want. so if someone wont communicate with you, theyre actively wasting your time and life

you know it’s bad when even her friends tell you to bounce

W swoozie-I had a similar situationship where I knew it was wrong and I didn’t really want it to happen. I felt so guilty that I ended up telling them and we eventually got back together. Your video just reminded me of how hard that struggle is but no matter what it teaches you a lesson to be loyal and honest with others, because it will catch up to you in the long run.

Hi Swoozie if you ever read this. For myself I noticed that I stayed in on-again off-again relationships because 1. I was lonely (even though I was surrounded by friends and family) 2. They were the best girl I ever had: sometimes looks, sometimes personality and, sometimes just their willingness to do things for me without having to be asked and without asking for anything in return.
Like you I also never cheated yet, I found that when I was in happy relationships I was never tempted even if the other girl was 10 times more beautiful than my girlfriend. Conversely because I was constantly unhappy in all my on-again off-again relationships I was always easily tempted to stray to other girls, because I was so emotionally starved for love.
Obviously I don't know you but, I hope my story can help you think about some things in your own dating life.

I'm starting to think Swoozie puts himself in some of this situations. Recognize red flags and set boundaries, bruh.

I feel you man. I'm in kinda the same situation.
Was over at a friend's house, watching a movie with him, his sister and their mom. He goes to bed, their mom goes to bed. And things went down with her and I.
Unfortunately, my story went further than that and we ended up laying in her bed for the whole night and I've caught feelings over this.
We've been trying to work it out, and its complicated. I'll see her again in a few weeks, so we'll see what happens.

We're all human, we all do things we're not necessarily proud of and what matters is that we learn and do better in the future (which you do). We still love you Swoozie 🤗

One day I hope we get a fashion/clothing video swoozies swag is unmatched.

Idk what it is but the more I dive into the genre of animated story’s on PLclip, the further sWOoZie’s spot as the goat is solidified

I have never heard someone describe a situationship more accurately than Swoozie just did

Situationship i was in had me down bad but I learned a lot from it. Never again 😂

Swoozie you always keep it real man ! Keep that up . People want to act perfect on social media & then do something the public condemns them for sometimes it’s warranted but sometimes it just a part of the human experience in different variations. Life we are all students & constantly learning at times to condemn someone is unfair because we all mess up in life in different ways or another . Anyway, keep being you ! Keep being honest & real with it ! You always have great content ✨💕🖤💕✨💯✨☺️✨🇹🇹✨ from one Trini to another !

You know the more i watch swoozie I realize that I dont want to be in a relationship but at the same time. He pulls out videos that make me want to be in one. I dont know how to explain this feeling.

Swoozie, watching your videos for about a decade now, we know your morals and values run DEEP. Much respects to be honest about this situation which youve spoken about before in regards to others but now found yourself in.

Being in a situationship is so difficult! On one hand, you’re single and free to do what you want. On the other hand, you feel a bit guilty when you see others. In addition, if they see other people, you do feel hurt and a bit like you’re allowing yourself to be cheated on. The best decision I ever made was getting out of a situationship. At the ending of the day, you either want to be with me or you don’t. There’s no in between.

Thank you for helping me understand alot better in your video brah. I had that and I may still have that situation ship. No wonder it worn me down easily when I liked a woman and she doesn’t like me back. But ended up we are having a bond without toxic involvement. I feel almost too perfect this year lately.

Hun, I kept waiting for the part where you did something wrong. There's nothing to judge, that went well.

i love this guy i remember watching him like some years back and i am back one of my favourite youtubers ever

I was in a situationship with my ex (lived together for a year until breakup) for about a month and it killed me. I am never going to do that to myself again. The relationship was too far gone to be saved but because we found comfort and familiarity in each-other, because it hurt too much to break up and hurt the other, we (sort of) remained together. I wanted to be with him more than he wanted to be back together with me and that was how I ruined myself for a long time to come. If you are in that kind of messy situationship where you hope the other person comes back to you and wants this again, don’t do it.
If they know they want to be with you they will know. They are just wasting your time and feel bad about hurting you. Wether or not they love you and are attracted.
If you stay because you think that you can’t live without them, you most certainly can force yourself to live without them long enough that eventually you forget what it felt like to have them at all. It’s not easy, and I regret everything about it especially because he ruined my reputation later because of it

Swoozie is my all time favorite story telling channel mad love for you man ❤ I’ve been watching you since 8th grade and now I’m almost 25

Situationships can wear down anyone. You're a good guy, Swoozie. Loved that you told us your story.

I haven’t even watched the video but I feel just how hard it is to talk about this. So I’m gonna talk about it.
I met this one girl in my 8’th grade year. We were in some “special” class where a select group of people were put in (normally smart people.) We got along very quickly because we just wanted to fuck around and almost never did our work.
We got kicked out of there for messing around near the end of the year, but things went on. Entering high school, things started to get a little more intimate. We stood closer to each other, sometimes even nudging. We sat together at lunch everyday, and when we were free enough we’d talk for 3-5 hours depending on what we were doing after-school. Sometimes there was even flirting between us.
I wanted to ask her out but never got my chance or never wanted the chance. We began to drift away from each other and I tried *so hard* to keep the relationship up.
Then, we got into some minuscule fight and the relationship was so raw at that point we just blocked each other. In my sophomore year, we had classes together. We made quick glances but tried our very hardest never to cross paths. And we never did.
I miss her so much.

The key is to end the situationship as soon as possible

The moment Swoozie said "for all my exes with whom ive been in a similar situation with", you realize thats a pattern 😂.
All good Swoozie. We are all jusy trynna be better.

Bro I so glad we have someone like swoozie online I can relate so much to this guy.

Swooz, I just want to say that over the years, you have been one of my greatest inspirations on this platform.

if you're serious enough to be mad at them for _"cheating"_ on you, you're serious enough to make it official. both are at fault for messin' around imo.

Swoozie, if you’re just talking and not hooking up with a woman, you have every right to explore other opportunities (just like women always do). But there is something inside of you that draws you to these super toxic women. You should find out what that is through therapy because when you are locked up with a crazy who isn’t good for you, you give up on other great opportunities - women who you can have healthy relationships with. Just something to think about.

I do love Swoozie's self awareness but when you have to justify that you ABSOLUTELY can/must have 'friend girls' (referencing previous vids) and you keep ending up in these weird situationships then I would think eventually one would put two and two together 😂 but i love swoozie so much!❤

I didn't know what a situationship was before this video. And upon hearing the definition.. they sound like a breeding ground for people who like to get the benefits of a relationship without having to commit. So they can ask you to do a whole buncha stuff for them but they don't gotta do anything for you, which includes staying loyal.
Someone who wants to stay in that kinda purgatory for longer then like a date or two before they have a definitive yes or no answer to committing. 🚩Red flag.🚩 in my books.
Also someone who jumps straight to revenge before even *trying* to talk it out or resolve it diplomatically. Petty. Inconsiderate. Immature. 🚩Red flag.🚩
Aaaand if you are *scared* to be able to tell your gf that you're going out with friends and 1 or 2 just happen to be female, because she'll make a whole thing out of it. Possessive. Probably hypercritical cause you bet she hangs out with guys. Distrustful of you. And again immature. 🚩Red flag.🚩
So in clarity, all your boys were very correct. She was *not* good for you bro. If you're with someone and then you start liking another girl, that's a very clear sign that the girl you're with right now probably isn't a keeper. (Or you're a cheater

Not even done with the video but Swoozie had me pausing so much because of how he described he got into a situationship AFTER a breakup was literally the exact mirror to mine, it really did make me feel less alone.

Not the bad guy! Great job getting out of the cycle of being off and on with someone that it’s not working out with. That was the best thing to do for both of you.

Swoozie I have been watching you since day one and I am 25 now, i have always been hoping you would get to find your perfect match and get to settle down someday 😭
Situationships take YEARS off your life i SWEAR

Respect my friend! Your response to that lady was very respectful for both parts!

It ain’t summer without binge watching swoozie

Swoozie is back at it with another saucy relationship advice video! 🤣🔥 I always feel like he drops these whenever I need them most. 😅

It is so unbelievable how this situation is the EXACT situation I'm in, wow.

I swear I’m in a situationship right now, and I’m trying so hard to deny that I’m in one 😅 because on the one hand, we live in 2 different states so it’s gonna be hard to be in a relationship regardless. But at the same time, we have our moments when we’re cute with each other. Situationships are complicated af 😭

love that ending 😭 I'm usually the same way though like it's hard to talk to multiple people and it feels bad I just stick to one but I swear every time they talking to someone else at the same time anyways 🤷🏿‍♂️

At the end of the day, respect for you making it up by keeping your boundaries! But bro… situationships suck.

U HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH U HAVE HELPED ME SWOOZIE I HAVE UP MOST RESPECT FOR U I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW U CANT JUST ADMIER SOMEONE LIKE HIM AND HIS WAY OF THINKING AND NOT HAVE THAT FEEL FOR HIM U ARE MY MENTOR THANK YOU SO MUCH FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART ♥

Watching Swoozie back in the day, little did I know life would take me on an incredible journey. From those vids to where I am now and seeing Swoozie's journey too, it's proof that dreams do come true!

I really miss the times when swoozie wasn't all about parties and exes.

Thank you for sharing this story man. I went thru something similar, and this really helped me.

2 lessons
Never get into a situationship. Either commit or move on
Girls and guys can’t truly be just friends. Never put yourself in a position where you could cheat, no matter how platonic your relationship may look.

I had the same thing happened to me, but the situation ship was this girl that I was in a relationship with her father didn’t like me and cut off communication from her for a long time so I didn’t know when I was going to see her again, so I just kinda went for something else … and i was honest with the situation ship girl and she wanted a relationship and i didn’t so i said i won’t continue leading you on and we talked about it face to face first time . makes me feel good being a better person than being honest.

All I've ever had was situationships. People who secretly pined after me but always made me feel like I was delusional for liking them as much as I did. Then somehow months/years down the line after I'd gotten over whatever happened and healed from it, the asshats find me again. Then one of two things happen: I either rip them a new one with my words and get away by physically fight off their advances, or (on the few times they find me when I'm drunk), they do whatever they want with as much consent as a blackout drunk person can give, and leave.

Simple, unique edit but the thought is real in a relationship, you're the best advisor and thanks, Adande! 😊🙏❤️👏

Situationships sound so stressful. I need both parties involved to understand the boundaries from the get go 😂

Swoozie brooo!! I love your content please don't stop making this content only when you can tho! I love you bro! I am thankful for just the things I have learnt from your stories thank you! I learned a lot from you! ❤❤ Keep it cool! 🔥😎

Hey swoozie, I know this is cheesy and I don’t ever do this and you might not even see this but I’m going through the exact same thing lmaoo it’s crazy cause the more you explain your story I’m like “there’s no way cause ME TOO” but yea just wanted to let yk haha

The no basket analogy was brilliant lmao. And I'm the complete opposite, I'll go into a grocery store and get a basket or even a cart when I only have like 1-2 things I'm planning on getting. That remains true for my relationship habits 🤠

Swoozie still out here teaching the youth how to not get caught slipping out here. U Fr one of the goats of PLclip ❤

I honestly haven't watched a video in a fat minute, but swoozie is still fine as wine 😍😍

Been watching Swoozie for as long as I can remember. Easily my favorite PLclipr and I have learned so much that’s helped me out from him. Keep up the amazing work and watch out for these situationships lurking😭💙

Has anyone ever noticed that swoozie has never gotten a dislike in any of his videos like what is there to dislike oml😭😭 you're so amazing man keep shining
Like literally in just 23hours bro got 278k views maannn you're truly amazing swoozie😭😭😭🥺

I think it all comes down to communication and boundaries. If given the moment in which you two decided to "take it slow" clear boundaries were set, there wouldn't be a problem. I don't know why people are so scared of having a conversation about "what are we? What things do we expect from each other from now on?". For me is as easy as "I wouldn't like you kissing other people/ I don't mind if you kiss other people". Why is it so hard to communicate your needs?

Dude, you need to talk about more of these situationships because it be happening way to often to me and I still have no clue how to deal with them.

How have I not experienced any of this, yet Swoozie makes it SOOO relatable?!?! Keep it up, Big man!

It is great that you recognized what was drawing back that situation and that it had to come to a stop.

Swoozie is hands down the best storyteller ong

Swoozie story telling is elite! I'll be watching by myself kicking my feet I'm laughing so hard 😂

Thank you for this story. I just had the same thing happen with me and my ex. I had to stop it too cause it was just throwing my mind off. It’s hard but necessary.

Sooo in conclusion... don't get involved in situationships, got it bestie 👍🏿

“Loyal to the soil” Damn love it lol we need more people like that

most of us that have been in situationships have this similar experience, we all love you swoozie this audience is not going to slander you lol

Swooz always has a girl that’s a friend that just so happens to want to get frisky with him 💀

All the Fousey drama had me remembering my favorite PLcliprs from that era, I’m happy to see Swoozie is still killin it 💪🏼

I definitely understand the grocery market metaphor. It sounds like you got mad at yourself for a bit, but you took control of the situationships and ironed it all out! I love your new boundaries for yourself and others!

Damm this story time hit me hard and got me remember my last two situationships 🥲

Gotta appreciate swoozie for always keeping it real

I’ve not been in a situation like this. But, I have had issues along these lines. I haven’t watched your videos in years until this one popped up. This video gave me a lot of comfort. It’s a goal to set things right and to do better from here on out. I never want anyone hurt by me.

the basket analogy was so good and so accurate omg

Always love the fits swoozie 🤘🏼

You should make a tv show on your life adventures 🤗✌ it would be a hit😀

I've been in situationships that never go anywhere. You are single till its offical, dont get your heart broken over someone who doesn't fully want you as their main course

Hey man you shouldn't trust what other people say about you your a great person and don't tell yourself that anyways the people that make fun of you don't deserve your time!