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  • Simpin' ain't pimpin' - advice on if you ever find yourself taking interest in someone who might not be as interested in you.
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  • @FIFAmusicMAN
    @FIFAmusicMAN 2 lat temu +8010

    Simpin 👏🏽 Aint 👏🏽 Pimpin

  • @HassanAlibhai
    @HassanAlibhai 2 lat temu +4707

    When the world needed him most, he returned.

    • @26mic
      @26mic 2 lat temu +11

      I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me fam

    • @big_guccii99
      @big_guccii99 2 lat temu +5


    • @parah7268
      @parah7268 2 lat temu +4

      @@playboinook don’t care 😐

  • @BiigiieCheeese
    @BiigiieCheeese 2 lat temu +1936

    Simple, if someone doesn't like you that way it's because they don't find you attractive as a partner. No need to stress understand their POV and move on.

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 2 lat temu +38


    • @jollofrice914
      @jollofrice914 2 lat temu +64

      That’s all good and dandy until you’re thirty and single because for some reason no ones into you. You should never stress on the individual level but many people have universally unattractive habits/traits thats stopping them from finding a partner and could be improved with some discipline

    • @BrokensoulRider
      @BrokensoulRider 2 lat temu +36

      @@jollofrice914 That's not the world's problem, though.

    • @yaoioppai6078
      @yaoioppai6078 2 lat temu +5

      Because you're not looking into yourself and finding the issue making you unattractive. Nothing changes, you keep getting rejected because nobody finds you attractive as a partner.

  • @Blueintheface00
    @Blueintheface00 2 lat temu +1641

    There’s also a huge difference between a good man and a “nice guy”. Women can discern when a dude is just putting on an act to get what he wants from you.

    • @phoenix-king779
      @phoenix-king779 2 lat temu +36

      Fax. I use to not understand this at all.

    • @RANDOM-pf1ve
      @RANDOM-pf1ve 2 lat temu +14

      Yeah but don't go for good men either if he is below 6ft

    • @phoenix-king779
      @phoenix-king779 2 lat temu +155

      @@geasslelouch why yall made in the comments. this is exactly the behavior she talking about

    • @geasslelouch
      @geasslelouch 2 lat temu +62

      @@phoenix-king779 no ones mad its just that its not true; no ones entitled to a relationship and no one has to love the nice guy, but making them the problem is a new way of shifting the blame

  • @PinkPenguinMovie
    @PinkPenguinMovie 2 lat temu +225

    I really appreciate all the advice. Thing is PLclip is filled with some really toxic advice for guys who are looking for some guidance around relationships. You give good, actionable, non-toxic advice in a format that is approachable to teenagers who are trying to figure stuff out. It keeps people away from the awful incel and pickup artist stuff, and makes the world a better place.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 2 lat temu +5

      Honestly, Swoozie is actually saying the same stuff as most "redpill" channels. So that just confirms those guys are actually right. If you don't believe me, compare a video like this to one from stephiscold or mediocre tutorials and reviews. The same things are being said there, only Swoozie has a much larger following.

    • @gos_7079
      @gos_7079 Rok temu

      That is true, I appreciate for your efforts.

    • @MaidenOfHusbands
      @MaidenOfHusbands Miesiąc temu

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 it doesn’t confirm those guys are actually right, It just confirms that Swoozie is like one of those awful guys. How does that even make sense that that you would assume that those guys are right, how are they right? It just means Swoozie thinks they are right, so that’s why he agrees with them and spreads that message along.

  • @jude_210
    @jude_210 2 lat temu +2051

    Modern culture has this toxic mindset that we have to "win" someone over. Nobody really thinks about how much of a waste of time trying to change someone's opinion of you is, especially when you could be spending that same energy talking to lots of different people and seeing who you connect with the most. Doing it that way will near guarantee you end up in a much happier, healthier relationship than if you'd just spent that same time browbeating someone you think you like into liking you back.

    • @Redsoxking
      @Redsoxking 2 lat temu +5

      @@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley k

    • @jillmont3342
      @jillmont3342 2 lat temu +2

      @@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley k

    • @danieldonovan106
      @danieldonovan106 2 lat temu +46

      The cliché in most popular media is "work hard enough and you'll win them over", but what people don't realize is that it only exists to provide narrative sense to the story. Plots usually need progression. Life doesn't work like that. Life doesn't make narrative sense. Just imagine someone you're not into, trying over and over again to win you over. Suddenly it sounds annoying and no longer romantic

  • @huntercool2232
    @huntercool2232 2 lat temu +660

    Can we also just point out the fact that when a guy gets a girlfriend his family congratulations him and welcomes her with open arms, but when a girl gets a boyfriend her family (Especially the dad) asks him all these questions and is so much more skeptical to except him lol

    • @poopypants2214
      @poopypants2214 2 lat temu +116

      Cause men are more likely to have alter motives, women have to be more careful about who they speak to, because the World is a dangerous place. Alot of guys aren't really what they seem. Which is why parents are more protective of their daughters.

    • @peterlantz7966
      @peterlantz7966 2 lat temu +32

      I think guys get praise maybe because being able to get a girl takes some guts and getting over shyness since we are the ones expected to make the moves. I only felt like my parents were happy about me making moves on this one girl once, and emotionally it hurt since it felt like my family didn't value my effort or the relationship. I struggle opening up to people about girls now partially because of that.

    • @gregvs.theworld451
      @gregvs.theworld451 2 lat temu +30

      @@emmalin2655 Interesting you pin that on misogyny. I was thinking that is seems kind of misandrist that a girls parents would regard a guy with skepticism and ire like he might be some kind of dangerous goon by default.
      Although, to be fair, those concepts aren't mutually exclusive, a lot of cultural standards are shitty for both genders. Could be some misogyny and misandry mixed in there.

  • @iamvoicelessmusic
    @iamvoicelessmusic 2 lat temu +250

    Just wanna say that Swoozie's advice of "mutual interest, mutual investment" has become a mantra in my life. Once I started adopting that idea, I got a whole lot further in life.
    I remember for over a year, I had it bad for this girl who never gave me the time of day. We never even dated and I got so head-over-heels for this girl that I made a fool out of myself. Then I just came to grips with the fact that she wasn't into me, and while it was super hard at first, it was the most freeing thing I've ever done. Also taught me a lot about focusing on improving myself rather than a girl. I got better at talking with women, but also learned how to wear each POI loosely until they express the same amount of interest. Right now I just want to focus on God, my career and my music. The right girl will come along when it's time.

    • @aafiaasdfghjkl759
      @aafiaasdfghjkl759 2 lat temu +1

      Whats POI

    • @iamvoicelessmusic
      @iamvoicelessmusic 2 lat temu +3

      @@aafiaasdfghjkl759 Person of interest. AKA your crush

    • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
      @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley 2 lat temu +16

      I'm a woman, but something I also learned is that liking and not liking someone goes both ways. Think about the people you may have hurt when you reject them (and this could be as simple as with online dating and getting a new message from someone that you're not into). So, while we all want to be liked back when we like someone, we all have the same power as well to reject a person. Once I realized that, being rejected or ignored hurt less.
      And I'm not talking about doing it out of bitterness or spite, just genuinely not being interested in a person.

    • @aafiaasdfghjkl759
      @aafiaasdfghjkl759 2 lat temu +1

      @@iamvoicelessmusic Ohh ok thanksss

  • @Sweetgirl33343
    @Sweetgirl33343 2 lat temu +843

    "Girls can tell when you like them."
    As a girl myself, I unfortunately can't tell when a guy likes me. I'm so oblivious to a guy liking me. Unless they tell me straight to my face that he likes me, I won't ever tell and it unfortunately happened to me so many times with a couple of guy friends I had. I felt so bad telling them that I never knew they liked me. ;n;

    • @KatieZeldaKat
      @KatieZeldaKat 2 lat temu +65

      Big same. Like, honestly people should just talk to you to say whether they have feelings, because it might just go nowhere otherwise (and it might not go anywhere even if someone makes a move, but at least there is communication and understanding in telling someone)

    • @stephaniesmith3544
      @stephaniesmith3544 2 lat temu +60

      Ross Orange
      You have met the wrong girls. You need to meet more.
      Sincerely, a girl who earns more than her boyfriend and is completely financially independent (not rare tbh).
      I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. We don’t choose to meet the wrong people. I don’t know your life, but there are so many ways to meet normal girls (and people in general)

    • @gab1888
      @gab1888 2 lat temu +30

      👏Exaclly 👏 i had so many times those situations. Once my guy friend said to me „l want to grab something to eat with you” a while after that he told me that it was a date, like how could I know that ? I also had different guy friend who would touch my hair, I was like „what are you doing?” And he said „I just like to touch hair” I tought it was wierd, but people do wierd things so I just ignored it. One day i overheard him talking to somebody that he liked me, I would never realised that by myself. Since we started daiting he never touched my hair. I guess that it was his way to show me that he likes me. Just tell somebody that you like them and don’t pray that they will realise that themself. Also if you’re a guy and looking for tips I would recommend you to watch some girls who are giving advices how to date a girl, they will know way better how to do it rather than a guy.

    • @Superblanko
      @Superblanko 2 lat temu +7

      @@gab1888 talk to a girl about dating advice big lol

    • @brrrr1584
      @brrrr1584 2 lat temu +5

      Did u ghost them tho? I told my best friend I liked her and I got ghosted

  • @sadmailman
    @sadmailman 2 lat temu +26

    swoozie You’re one of the first PLcliprs I ever watched as a young kid and you haven’t changed one bit :) thanks for always making me laugh all these years

  • @arrieonramdial2913
    @arrieonramdial2913 2 lat temu +738

    “He’s not studying her”… one of the most Trini things I’ve heard Swoozie say🤣
    Big up T&T 🇹🇹🔥🙌🏼

  • @amgonza19
    @amgonza19 2 lat temu +247

    "it's a great feeling.. when the tables turn and POI is now interested in you" ... Has never happened to me. Swoozie, some of us are just mere mortals!

    • @darkriku12
      @darkriku12 8 miesięcy temu

      Gotta put the oxygen mask on yourself and focus on having it on correctly before focusing on others

  • @AlphinJude
    @AlphinJude 2 lat temu +4177

    "I'm de-romanticising the situation, there's no room for interpretation"
    BARSSS 🔥

    • @26mic
      @26mic 2 lat temu +20

      No replies damn I gochu I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me my brother Fr

    • @alexadams2230
      @alexadams2230 2 lat temu +3


    • @shayde3428
      @shayde3428 2 lat temu +6

      ngl i thought i was the obly one who caught that

    • @adonaiyah2196
      @adonaiyah2196 2 lat temu +1

      I agree

    • @2kab157
      @2kab157 2 lat temu +8

      He needs to put that on a shirt

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 2 lat temu +2224

    This is so perfect

  • @gaydes1012
    @gaydes1012 2 lat temu +170

    this is better dating advice than anyone on the internet who specializes in dating advice, mans ain't trying to be smooth he just got life experience.

    • @phoenix-king779
      @phoenix-king779 2 lat temu

      How to beast and teachingmenfashion are the closest to this advice tho. There out there

    • @kharimarquette
      @kharimarquette 2 lat temu +1

      Jesus Gonzalez It's surely not in the US, of course.

  • @shipper1903
    @shipper1903 2 lat temu +106

    I got a worse situation, my ex said: "let's take a break i need a bit of time, maybe a few days" the next day i found her making out with a guy we litteraly met the same day she told me that, i was almost going berserk, luckily i remembered some words i actualy heard from you: "either you can choose me, or you can loose me" those words saved me... thank you swoozie

    • @deadly5528
      @deadly5528 Rok temu +16

      Never let women play you like that. Girls like that don't deserve your attention. I hope you are doing well
      Edit: My god how time aged poorly, my girlfriend of 5 months did the same thing as described by the top comment. I hope we both get through this bro

    • @level8473
      @level8473 Rok temu

      @@deadly5528 lmaoo

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 11 miesięcy temu

      @@deadly5528 I wish you all the best. Bless you.

  • @arandomweeb1890
    @arandomweeb1890 2 lat temu +138

    Swoozie - Talking about common relationship issues
    Me - Nodding my head while knowing damn well that I've never even been in a relationship in my life

  • @rosewisteria
    @rosewisteria 2 lat temu +12

    Swoozy's scenario happens all the time. What a great example for advice! Love the story and animations as usual.

  • @AgentAnime95
    @AgentAnime95 2 lat temu +391

    Reason why he/she doesn't like you back:
    1. He/She said no. No, is a full on sentence.
    2. He/She straight up just doesn't like you.
    Wether a guy/girl rejects you doesn't mean you should go full on "incel/femcel" over it. Just accept the fact that you got rejected and move on with your life. Do what makes *you* happy and you'll be alright.

    • @codygrooms7713
      @codygrooms7713 2 lat temu +20

      Reason 1 and 2 and are the same thing. Lol

    • @captainsoarineagle
      @captainsoarineagle 2 lat temu +33

      Way I see it. Nothing gained or lost. High chances are you'll see someone else you'll like

    • @SillyLilDawg
      @SillyLilDawg 2 lat temu +1

      Preach bro

    • @codygrooms7713
      @codygrooms7713 2 lat temu +7

      @@renaesenton8306 All those reasons still mean they dont like you. And the answers no.

    • @kidokoala
      @kidokoala 2 lat temu +2

      Wait, there's such a thing as femcels?

  • @dherorulez1
    @dherorulez1 2 lat temu +11

    Swoozie makes my favorite videos on the internet. Straight facts, dope animations, and a good sense of humor.

  • @matthewhhawk17
    @matthewhhawk17 2 lat temu +413

    Swoozie: "You had me leaning back like Neo in the Matrix."
    Kelly: "Nooo not true at all! You don't remember that night correctly you never did that."
    Swoozie in his mind: "Was I in the Matrix?"

  • @rayjordan8513
    @rayjordan8513 2 lat temu +1

    You just gotta rock with someone who rocks with you. Be yourself if someone you like dont like you back just be friends but keep it platonic, no favors or spending too much time together. You'll find some one eventually just make sure your happy.

  • @marlom7882
    @marlom7882 2 lat temu +557

    “Here’s something my friends hate when I say: if a girl’s not into you there’s a good chance she’ll never be into you”
    Why do your friends hate when you say that?

    • @chelseastcyr7915
      @chelseastcyr7915 2 lat temu +169

      simply because it hurts to face that realization. people want to hold on to hope.

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 lat temu +47

      @@chelseastcyr7915 hope is irrational

    • @HopeIsADrug11037
      @HopeIsADrug11037 2 lat temu +43

      @@marlom7882 hope is a drug

    • @barrytelesford5265
      @barrytelesford5265 2 lat temu +32

      its hard to accept that they are not desirable

    • @kid9046
      @kid9046 2 lat temu +21

      🗣️🎙️ SIMP'N AIN'T PIMP'N

  • @itsvintage50s57
    @itsvintage50s57 Rok temu +3

    I agree with all the advice Swoozie has given in this video and others. Dating can be wonderful but sometimes it's just bad. Personally I'm a person who can't really see "double meanings" and in dating there a ton of those! My mantra is "the right person will come at the right time." Simple as that.

  • @firegirl660
    @firegirl660 2 lat temu +753

    Sometimes yea the simplest answer is, the reason she doesn't like you or he doesn't like you, is because they don't have to like you. You can't force feelings that don't exist to appear all of sudden. You could meet the qualifications she/he "wants" but, theres still a chance they won't feel anything towards you. Stuff is complicated, you wouldn't date every single person they shows up in your life and neither will others.

  • @AzzyOfficial
    @AzzyOfficial 2 lat temu +50

    Swoozie has been my role model since like highschool. He just out here livin life, doin him while also being a gamer.
    Must be nice

  • @danarodz3275
    @danarodz3275 2 lat temu +698

    Honestly sometimes you are just not her type. Simple as that. Its not personal. If someone wants a blue car and all you have is silver cars there's nothing you can do about that. It doesn't mean silver cars are bad either. Weird analogy, I know but its the best I could come up with 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @swoozie
      @swoozie  2 lat temu +194

      Great analogy actually

    • @bigbeaner6956
      @bigbeaner6956 2 lat temu +6


    • @chaim5326
      @chaim5326 2 lat temu +8

      What if that car has a nascar engine

    • @rdc489
      @rdc489 2 lat temu +8

      Yeah but like a silver Ferrari is still a silver Ferrari lol, ain't no one saying no to a silver Ferrari if you get what I'm saying

    • @ashniyuni5033
      @ashniyuni5033 2 lat temu +4

      *Spray paints silver cars*

  • @flo4255
    @flo4255 2 lat temu +3

    I'm gonna be honest. I enjoy adande's general story time more than his dating advice. Don't hate his dating advice video's, but it's just a bit more fun and entertaining to see him sit in a room and talk about things he's experienced.

  • @charliecamacho1233
    @charliecamacho1233 2 lat temu +76

    This is what entire video is explaining what I’m feeling in high school and all I have to say it that “don’t worry about a girl who doesn’t like you back, the one thing that matters is focusing on what you want to be seen for and some day a girl will like you for what you do”.

  • @leedahoney
    @leedahoney 2 lat temu +3

    So proud of you!! 😫💕👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love your videos and hearing the stories you share.

  • @TheMainAntagonist
    @TheMainAntagonist 2 lat temu +1447

    "When she doesn't like you back"
    Story of my life 😂😂😂😂😔

    • @26mic
      @26mic 2 lat temu +3

      My brother I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me

    • @godthesavage5572
      @godthesavage5572 2 lat temu +13

      @@26mic your video legit give me edp445 vibes.

    • @cressidasingh
      @cressidasingh 2 lat temu +2

      Lol 😂

    • @qulvan696
      @qulvan696 2 lat temu +3

      @@godthesavage5572 damn bro did him dirty 😂😂😂

    • @angelmartine8645
      @angelmartine8645 2 lat temu +1

      Damn swoozie you got a wild nice fit 👍🏻

  • @AllmightyX
    @AllmightyX 2 lat temu +206

    Most of the time there’s a reason why they don’t like you back. It could be something very minor or a huge red flag you have, but sometimes they just don’t want to be with you. And that’s okay.

    • @AllmightyX
      @AllmightyX 2 lat temu +1

      @@mr.skeleton3190 what is that one reason?

    • @AllmightyX
      @AllmightyX 2 lat temu +23

      @@mr.skeleton3190 looks really ain’t all that. 9 times out of 10 it’s less about looks and more about hygiene. Hygiene plays a huge role in how you look and style is also what can attract girls. You also have to realize that every girl is different and not all like the same thing. So sometimes the girls you’re trying to attract aren’t necessarily into the same things you are or don’t find those things to be attractive. That’s all.

    • @seleneyue
      @seleneyue 2 lat temu +1

      @@mr.skeleton3190 Because we have creep radar. A comment can be cute if said jokingly of offhandedly, but creepy if someone expects a date or sex in return. Or maybe she knew that guy and you were a total stranger

    • @aijadawn3547
      @aijadawn3547 2 lat temu +1

      @@mr.skeleton3190 Abuse is way more insidious. Most abusers seem perfectly normal and not creepy. Don’t blame women, recognize the realities of abuse.

    • @AllmightyX
      @AllmightyX 2 lat temu

      Jesus Gonzalez people in Chicago don’t have to do that tho.

  • @XXallycat101XX
    @XXallycat101XX 2 lat temu +6

    One reason that girls end up with bad guys is because the bad guy acts like a nice guy at the jump, and then the girl gets emotionally involved, to the point where she forgives all of his shitty behavior because she loves him so much and forgives easily. I don't know a single bad guy who treats a girl they want like shit from the jump. That's why nice guys get a bad rep sometimes because no one knows if it's genuine or not.

  • @darithkahn298
    @darithkahn298 2 lat temu +38

    Always remember: Being single doesn't mean being undesirable. It can mean that, but often times it also means having some STANDARDS!

    • @HA-sn8cn
      @HA-sn8cn 2 lat temu

      I agree

    • @justalpha9138
      @justalpha9138 11 miesięcy temu

      Exactly. I really don't mind not being in a relationship, or never having been in one yet.

  • @dynamosaurusimperious2718

    Swoozie sure always know how to make the best relatable video,and I love it

  • @paulinan926
    @paulinan926 2 lat temu +61

    Swoozie is right when it comes to the fact that if she decides she doesn’t like u she will never like u. However, there is a difference between her never considering u two as a couple and her considering it and saying no.

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle 2 lat temu

      But they’ll find a stupid reason to not like you, or don’t even give time to get to know you lol..

  • @BrooksHolt
    @BrooksHolt 2 lat temu +1265

    Never forget. Simpin ain’t pimpin

  • @justinshimonkarborani4581

    i always like how swoozie changes his art style each video

  • @vincentdaniels5645
    @vincentdaniels5645 2 lat temu +5

    Swoozie, your videos have given a different outlook on many things. Keep doing your thing bro, god bless

  • @OurKindofEntertainment
    @OurKindofEntertainment 2 lat temu +738

    Ever since I stopped messaging people first, my DMs have been drier than a biscuit from Popeyes

  • @unibrowmonsterattack5527

    I think it boils down the truism that "Nice" doesn't mean "Good", and that goes for both the boy and girl. Learning how to judge character and focus on finding someone who shares your value system is the best thing you can do in dating.

  • @PotatoKing16
    @PotatoKing16 2 lat temu +6

    As a woman, YES.
    I also learned so much about guys from this, so thanks!
    and that girl who gave you her number, drove and hour each way to see you weekly... that can totally be misunderstood as making the first move(s). I don't blame you for initiating even more.

  • @Nerdslayergaming
    @Nerdslayergaming 2 lat temu +1364

    When I was an aspiring PLclipr, I complained about how I could never get advice or the chance to talk to a current PLclipr. I wanted to pick their brain, get some answers and (hopefully) find the right path for my own content creating. When Swoozie was already a gold plaque acquired PLclipr, he responded to my personal messages (back when PLclip had messaging ROFL)! I was shocked by how honest, candid, and genuine he was as a person. I also had the chance to meet Swoozie at gaming event where he was playing people in the audience, same exact experience. I wanted to say publicly, thanks to Swoozie and PLcliprs like him for inspiring people like me (and im sure many more) to do PLclip as well! Also your content has grown exponentially in quality, and your story telling is there along with it.

    • @twilit
      @twilit 2 lat temu +5

      You’re doing good for yourself too!

    • @VaccineVR
      @VaccineVR 2 lat temu +3

      Atleast someone took there time to type I respect you my guy 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👄👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @thegiratina101
      @thegiratina101 2 lat temu +2

      I remember him following me back on twitter and that just being the coolest shit to me

    • @RanchKings
      @RanchKings 2 lat temu


    • @Synthix_
      @Synthix_ 2 lat temu

      hi checkmark

  • @yadsewnde8699
    @yadsewnde8699 2 lat temu +25

    Swoozie stay giving morals with a flex. That's why we love him

  • @yaldrammuqadis140
    @yaldrammuqadis140 2 lat temu +4

    Swoozie sometimes I stop watching your content because I feel like it's repetitive, but it's just honest words so thanks for pumping out the amazing videos!!!

  • @alexcat6685
    @alexcat6685 Rok temu

    1:26 We'll just give about the same energy, this applies to platonic relationships aswell, you treat them how they treat you, but someone has to start something if they want something, as a stranger ain't going to try to become your friend generally, so if you want friends you have to go out of your way for it, even if maybe they wouldn't. it has to start somewhere, without it we'll be strangers for the rest of existence.
    so give the other around the same energy, personal touch can be added like a little bit more, or a bit less depends on you, you just don't want your simping to be taken for granted, or used.
    Unless she/he is doing the same to you, Copycat, react to what they give and copy, in that way you can usually give the same amount of energy without destroying a good relationship because you feel like your too Nice, or have it be uncomfortible because we don't cling that way.

  • @darkninja2499
    @darkninja2499 2 lat temu

    These videos will never be bad. They are always so interesting and funny.

  • @lotuslady9821
    @lotuslady9821 2 lat temu

    Haven’t watched Swoozie in a few years and it’s awesome to see he still has his same humor

  • @PinstrypeKouzin
    @PinstrypeKouzin 2 lat temu +66

    This is why I check in on these videos; not for relationship advice, but for these incredible stories! Swoozie a GOAT.

  • @JuriLuvsU
    @JuriLuvsU 2 lat temu +1

    I love both the newer animation style (last Disney video) as well as the original low-key animation featured here. Thanks for keeping the funny (and pro tips) alive!!!

  • @olgavillegas1363
    @olgavillegas1363 2 lat temu

    Love your stories Swoozie! You should do more!

  • @brooklynntoombs2265

    Love the animations been a supporter for years keep up the work swo !!

  • @LadyDecember
    @LadyDecember 2 lat temu +1

    I certainly can't tell when a guy likes me. I never assume over-friendliness means he likes me, I assume he's just really friendly.
    This exchange happened to me once and it still haunts me to this day...
    Him: Maybe we can go grab a coffee.
    Me: [cheerfully oblivious] Oh no thank you, I don't drink coffee!
    Him: Oh, well, it d-doesn't have to be coffee [beginning to get flustered]
    Me: [vacant smile, innocently wondering why he's getting all squirmy]
    In my defense I don't get asked out much, so I can't read the signs because I just assume by default that I'm getting passed over. This one blindsided me when I realized what was happening.

  • @freeman7297
    @freeman7297 Rok temu +2

    “Guys, you know how you can tell a girl likes you without her having to say anything? Girls can tell the same thing”
    Man that’s eye opening. It’s like a glass container just got lifted off my relationship life

  • @oscaraleman8153
    @oscaraleman8153 2 lat temu +103

    Swoozie is everybody’s internet therapist and we all love it😂

  • @skyetonbo1011
    @skyetonbo1011 2 lat temu

    Freaking fabulous. Just found your channel and totally addicted. You're a fabulous story teller and comedian. 🦋

  • @themagicknightress7132

    To be honest we don’t always know. In 10th grade a kid from my Spanish class from the past two years asked me out and I was shocked bc I disliked him for that entire first year.
    Also, girl’s are more emotionally open than men so when they show men a regular-human-being amount of attention, then men think they’re special and “surely this girl likes me right? Now I’m thinking she’s kinda attractive” and the girl thinks nothing of it bc they would do the same with their girl friends.

  • @Corbz_Art
    @Corbz_Art 2 lat temu +1

    Swoozie is like a social detective anyone else agree?

  • @paddlepudds1497
    @paddlepudds1497 2 lat temu +7

    The second you mentioned "if a girl is not into you, there's a chance she'll never be into you" I just felt like "someone said it omg"
    I can only speak for myself but personally- it feels crappy. It feels bad when someone just seems to think at some point you'll be into them. . .even if your pretty sure you won't be. I had a guy like this where no matter how many times I denied his confession, he just. . .kept going. As if believing at some point I'd be interested. I wasn't. I was getting uncomfortable. I was feeling guilty about the rejections cause he looked like a kicked puppy. And I felt guilty because this dude would love to get me gifts. He was starting to just make me overall uncomfortable because he also seemed to, in my eyes, get clingy to me. It just overall felt like the very idea that I just wouldn't be into him wasn't possible. I mean, that's my own experience with a guy seeming to think at some point I'd be into him, but it just. . .felt bad overall. I ended up cutting ties with him because of it. For me, it feels like if you keep kind of pushing for that person to like you, even if they made it clear they aren't interested, it feels like your being ignored and that doesn't really make things good. Like, yeah, things can change but continuing to pursue after they arent showing interest ain't the way-

    • @saminuddin6853
      @saminuddin6853 2 lat temu

      if its alright with you, would you mind telling me why you werent interested in him in the first place? that is, before he started getting pushy?

    • @thebotfather9508
      @thebotfather9508 2 lat temu +1

      i bet if you heard he got rich you'd all of a sudden find yourself magically attracted to him lol smh

  • @thebearded4427
    @thebearded4427 2 lat temu +1

    I didn't even know i needed dating advice, but apparently i did! Yey! Great work sWoooZie!

  • @InfamousSwoosh
    @InfamousSwoosh 2 lat temu +3971

    im gonna start going to swoozie with lady advice instead of my friends

  • @MrFath-gg8oj
    @MrFath-gg8oj 2 lat temu +18

    The one time this happened to me, I chased for a long time. It wasn't until I told my friends that if they got a chance they should take it that things changed. As soon as I stopped pursuing her, she started aggressively going after me. It was crazy.

  • @ShineFeline
    @ShineFeline 2 lat temu +1

    This is the realist take on this shit I've ever seen. I've seen guys try to explain this "why doesn't she like you back" over and over, and they all fail to realize the real answer is "I don't know, there could be a dozen different reasons". We have types, there's no one way to act to become a ladies man.

  • @MalenaMoonbeam444
    @MalenaMoonbeam444 2 lat temu +1

    Swoozie always has the best advice on relationships in the most entertaining way. I need you as a bestie to learn from cause I’m terrrrrrrible. 😅

  • @thali5st
    @thali5st 2 lat temu

    Love hearing your stories man. Great live advice sometimes

  • @ninjakalai2113
    @ninjakalai2113 2 lat temu +1

    this man is the type of person to be a good friend. so good he can make someone's relation ship into a good relation ship

  • @RevenantIsHere
    @RevenantIsHere 2 lat temu +423

    There’s “nice guys” and there’s “good guys.” Don’t be a nice guy, don’t be a good guy either
    Be a GREAT guy

    • @26mic
      @26mic 2 lat temu +2

      I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me my G Fr

    • @johnstamos5948
      @johnstamos5948 2 lat temu +5

      Don't worry about being liked, be respected

    • @YakkoWarnerTower
      @YakkoWarnerTower 2 lat temu +1

      Lol true it's just all about respect bud.

    • @hewhowatches3487
      @hewhowatches3487 2 lat temu +4

      Dont have a good day, have a great day

  • @LommeMann1
    @LommeMann1 2 lat temu +1

    Only Swoozie could wear such an audacious hat and look so fresh and casual at the same time

  • @microsoftmanyt2680
    @microsoftmanyt2680 2 lat temu

    Dude swooz is quite literally the best PLclipr on the PLATFORM, he’s got the advice, the stories, the dark side, AND THE EPIC ANIMATION!

  • @sharpiecolours2716
    @sharpiecolours2716 2 lat temu +7

    I remember I gave a boy at my school signs of my affection because I liked him, and when I saw he just ignored it or laughed at me with his friends I just said to myself, "Nope. I'm not wasting my time on this." So I lost feelings and stopped giving him interest. Surprisingly the dude noticed and started trying to give me signs; bruv legit held open a door for me😐. I'm wondering, did he really realize his mistake or miss the attention?

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 2 lat temu +2

    This video was on my home page. I decided to listen. You gave true advice. Your story at the end was respectful to the girl you were dating now.
    Sometimes girls are concentrating on their own things and don't want to date at all. You should really try to ask the girl why she doesn't want to go out with you. You might get an honest answer.
    Sometime girls just don't have a chemistry connection gut feeling for that guy. Some girls have a type they are drawn to

  • @saltsasher1656
    @saltsasher1656 2 lat temu +6

    this man and his advice raised me from probably 2009 to now. amazing

  • @MrsBlack88
    @MrsBlack88 2 lat temu +262

    As a girl, I agree with almost everything besides creeping the Instagram likes to see what she likes. For one, my Instagram likes are just of memes and cookie decorating videos. On the other hand, don’t change yourself to fit what you think she might like!!! The most attractive thing you can be is yourself :)

    • @jj2059
      @jj2059 2 lat temu +17

      Doesn’t hurt to see what she likes

    • @lryuzaki1895
      @lryuzaki1895 2 lat temu +4

      best advice ever

    • @MsWhocares14
      @MsWhocares14 2 lat temu +22

      I think he meant look at what she likes to see if you fit the bill, like get the answers you need to why it's not working

  • @vickayenesi3608
    @vickayenesi3608 2 lat temu

    I cannot stress how much you make my day

  • @lilnxmb7135
    @lilnxmb7135 2 lat temu +23

    Swoozie be giveing the best advice on PLclip no cap.

  • @tomdickens7856
    @tomdickens7856 2 lat temu +4

    I really needed to hear this. I have just gotten off spending the last two weeks trying to get with a girl at work. Although I am still really into her, after I accepted the fact that it just wasn't happening, life got a lot more enjoyable. We still work together and get along just fine, and could even be considered friends, but now I don't have to worry about trying to impress her, I just do me.

    • @JJ_0134
      @JJ_0134 2 lat temu +1

      Yup I like guys that be themselves

  • @anjelloproductions
    @anjelloproductions 2 lat temu +1

    Swoozie definitely has some of the best advice from his personal experiences

  • @coffeeandcupcakes7310
    @coffeeandcupcakes7310 2 lat temu +2

    This was really funny! It's awesome to see what the other side has to deal with. I can tell you from the female perspective that women definitely vary. Just like guys do. You have you're superficial and flaky men, just like there are superficial and flaky women. You have women who are attracted to certain physical/personality traits, just as some men are. There is no secret. Its just that simple. If a woman doesn't like you that way or doesn't seem interested in you romantically, it isn't because you didn't 'play the game right' or because you were 'too available' or because you 'didn't act busy' or w.e. Sometimes women just are not interested. It sucks, but it happens to us on the flip side too.
    I've had to be told "no thanks we're just friends" and I've had to be there when my girl friends felt cruddy because it happened to them. I know the stigma is that it's always the guy being "friend zoned", but in my experience its something everyone suffers from. The most important thing is, that you realize that you deserve someone that is going to give you their 110%, and when you find them, you make sure to give them 110% too. Stay away from people who live for drama and who are toxic, flock to people who excel at empathy and understanding. You deserve to be accepted and loved in your entirety, and so does the person you're looking for.
    If someone doesn't reciprocate your feelings, then hey...you tried. I know it's hard and it seems impossible to move on. But try. Because there's someone out there for you and chances are they are going through the gauntlet of botched romantic attempts too.
    Whatever you do, when you find that person that is interested. If they are true to you and good for your soul, don't play games. Just be your real self and take the leap. Be courageous when you have to be and vulnerable when you're sure you can't be. If you can manage to do all of this, I think you'll do just fine!

  • @Awesomemay
    @Awesomemay 2 lat temu +39

    this guy keeps on making bangers and hasn't stopped, his videos are so addicting to watch

    • @26mic
      @26mic 2 lat temu

      I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me kuz

    • @milktea6676
      @milktea6676 2 lat temu +2

      If I had a dime for everytime someone didn’t call me back
      I’ve have zero 😎
      Because i was too cowardly to ask them 😐

  • @TrueCrimeQueen
    @TrueCrimeQueen 2 lat temu +2

    Love your videos!! Everyone stay safe out there

  • @Mothyn
    @Mothyn 2 lat temu +8

    The number one thing to keep in mind when doing ANYTHING with ANYONE,( Or something in general to keep in mind with interactions)
    Is that some people will just hate you for no reason or make up a reason, even if it's something that's really small.

  • @aturtle1290
    @aturtle1290 2 lat temu

    I have tortoises who are friends who never seem to want to do anything hang out, grab some kelp, swim away from predators you know the usual, and Swoozie gives me the confidence to not wanna hang with them

  • @ohhello937
    @ohhello937 2 lat temu +70

    LOL so true. When my man and I started posting our relationship on social media a girl he used to talk to liked all our stuff and then privately hit him up for "casual online gaming". I was annoyed he played a few hours with her - super oblivious as to what was going on and wouldn't believe me. So the second time she asked him to play I joined in the party to play with them. She played 1-2 rounds and suddenly had to leave and never messaged him again.

    • @phoenix-king779
      @phoenix-king779 2 lat temu

      Bro even if there is a rumor about me dating someone girls come out the woodwork

    • @phoenix-king779
      @phoenix-king779 2 lat temu

      Jesus Gonzalez king

    • @ohhello937
      @ohhello937 2 lat temu +16

      deej yt If you're implying we have a toxic relationship - nah, we do great and we've been together over 4 years now plus we always game together anyhow so me joining the party was nothing new. If you mean the girl was toxic, from what I understand she dropped him for some guy she married, had a baby with, and divorced all within 2 years. She was a freshly divorced single mom too when she starting messaging him.

    • @jsnicks7189
      @jsnicks7189 2 lat temu +1

      deej yt 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @MrPonytron
    @MrPonytron 2 lat temu +57

    Yeah, I've heard stories like this. At first, you'd be the average guy that no girl really takes a second glance at, but, once you become successful, that's when they strike. It's pretty sad that's the world we live in

    • @tourmelion9221
      @tourmelion9221 2 lat temu +5

      I mean
      When your on the same level and it's just about attraction in real life peeps don't chase
      Once you get rich peeps who are broke wish to exploit you for your money through dating
      Peeps at least in my experience
      Don't just decide to go out with someone just cause they're nice and show some decency
      There needs to be more
      Either physical attraction
      A long term supportive relationship
      Or the muns

    • @moneysun9184
      @moneysun9184 2 lat temu +6

      Yep you need to take the red pill

    • @gregvs.theworld451
      @gregvs.theworld451 2 lat temu +13

      Or, it could just be that, the more fame and status you have, the bigger your social circles are and thus the more people you meet, and so your options for dating increase.
      For the sake of argument Lil Nas X could be my perfect match if we ever met, but I'm not in the social position where I could presently meet Lil Nas X, and there's a fair chance I may never be.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 2 lat temu +4

      @@gregvs.theworld451 No, it's literally what was stated. It's not about your social circle. We're talking about THE SAME women who didn't before, but now that you are famous/have money, they are all of a sudden "interested". The world does work this way, it's only natural for a woman to want to attach herself to a successful man, it's just in women's biology.

    • @gregvs.theworld451
      @gregvs.theworld451 2 lat temu +11

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 I'm sure some people will give other people a second look when they feel they can directly benefit from their newly found fame or money, but I know not everyone does that and saying it's in women's biology is just ridiculous and sounds like some red pill pick up artist type nonsense.

  • @maciesteiner8631
    @maciesteiner8631 2 lat temu +654

    As a girl we definitely know when a guy likes us, and when we don’t like them back we try to put it in a nice way or else we seem like a bitch. But when guys don’t take that, that’s when lots of us ghost them or stop talking to them. Also lots of times the “nice guys” aren’t actually that nice, they just do things for you expecting things in return, and if you don’t do what they want in return we are the ass hole. But you definitely nailed a lot of things in this video about girls.

    • @duskssj4704
      @duskssj4704 2 lat temu +84

      @@THIZZAVELI i mean yeah but it’s not like every girl in the world is gonna see your comment so why type that much

    • @jazzyjay930
      @jazzyjay930 2 lat temu +35

      That's fair, just don't be mad when dudes stop trying when u play hard to get😂😂

    • @sectorbean6314
      @sectorbean6314 2 lat temu +77

      @@THIZZAVELI my guy if it was that easy to say yes or no to someone the world would have exploded by now

    • @thomasgodfreyjr.5555
      @thomasgodfreyjr.5555 2 lat temu +11

      @@THIZZAVELI I agree girls that act like that have the mind of a 8 year old or a high schooler it’s very immature

  • @jcurses
    @jcurses 2 lat temu

    I had this friend in college. Drop dead gorgeous with both looks and personality (focusing more on the personality). We hang out every day on campus. I didn't know but it was an open secret that I was crushing hard. She made sure that I was in the friendzone.
    Jump to my senior year and I get into a serious relationship with the person who would become my wife. All of a sudden my crush begins dodging me like Tidus jumps lightning. I think I must've done something wrong but I find out through one of our mutual friends that she's avoiding me because SHE'S now crushing on me. She said she always found me cute and a great listener but I was now showing her that I could hold a serious relationship. Catch 22...

  • @mobmobbers7811
    @mobmobbers7811 2 lat temu +4

    Swoozi is the master oogway of relationships always giving us advice

  • @JourneyAlee
    @JourneyAlee 2 lat temu

    Yes. This advice is 😎. Girls do tend to be drawn to the guy who is hard to get. Notice I said girls, not women. When we grow up and stop chasing physical ideals, we DO give good guys a FAIR chance. Likewise, if a girl chases after one jerk after another, she probably has deep issues. All in all, if she's not digging you, it probably has nothing to do with you, and she's at a place where she's not able to appreciate you anyway. Cut the filly loose and find a woman.

  • @Micheal007omega
    @Micheal007omega 2 lat temu +1

    Lol I love this dude, he's hella funny all the time, every time

  • @puppetsarewonderful
    @puppetsarewonderful Miesiąc temu

    I don't think that you should ever change your physical appearance for a person you like. If they like you for you, they'd tell you that. It's mostly on personality. You have to reflect mainly on that to see if a girl/guy can like you and see if YOU'RE likable

  • @bongandaba433
    @bongandaba433 2 lat temu +3

    This made my day so much better, thank you Swoozie

  • @fine_ol_chap
    @fine_ol_chap 2 lat temu +1

    I never got asked out, lovingly or nicely complimented, or got stared by a girl who would have loving ways (if you know what I mean by that). And I was a nice guy too. I didn't want to do the wrong things but I didn't always do the right things. I was just you normal average guy going by school. Wasn't fit in a way but I didn't look like a blob either. I don't know what was wrong with me in my school days. I just wanted to make friends and have a possible girlfriend to fill in a hole of my own (a hole like an empty feeling). It's not technically my fault I've given up in ever finding someone who would love me back. Its just impossible for me to love someone back because nobody ever felt that way for me. I don't even know how to love somebody the right way if I was in a relationship, the problem I had is stupid, ridiculous, and depressing. Its sad to be honest, and I'm the one dealing with it. I'm just all alone in the big world of seeing a loving relationship everyday wondering if I'll ever find the one, but I've already given up. Maybe she does like me back, maybe not, but I'll never know because I can't find the hint because of this.
    It's a sad lonely life for me, and I welcome it, not in a way that I enjoy, nor do I say in a depressing way. I just welcome it normally. I feel nothing towards writing this. I don't feel sad yet I don't enjoy the feeling of knowing I'm alone. I just am who I am and that is who I'll be.

  • @lilyeunix5975
    @lilyeunix5975 2 lat temu

    When it comes to relationships between genders I personally think 'friendship' is an extraordinary feat cause a romantic relationship is always assumed as the end result. Treat them as a friend, they get interested... You're interested, they treat you as a friend.
    Never seen it stay unless with just acquaintances.

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 2 lat temu +1

      Tell me you've never had a healthy friendship without telling me you've never had a healthy friendship

  • @spencerleo5126
    @spencerleo5126 2 lat temu

    This is my fav swoozie animation style. Those simple still frames. I love Alex Clark n all but that Confessions off Disney Employee cartoon style is supreme

  • @RuNZiT1
    @RuNZiT1 2 lat temu

    Out of all the things he said.. one phrase that’s going to stick with me forever.. *Simpin’ Ain’t Pimpin*

  • @oocombz
    @oocombz 2 lat temu

    Literally had that situation happened to me. When I was in high school I had this girl that her and I were friends. I made the move one time when we were hanging out and blew the whole thing. So right after high school I end up meeting the love of my life, get engaged and unfortunately she passes away. So about 2 years after that happened girl from high school hits me up and sees that I have my own house, a great job and suddenly she's beyond interested. So yeah it totally sucks to get curved...

  • @ComicalRealm
    @ComicalRealm 2 lat temu +253

    "If a girl wants you, nothing can keep her away from you. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay" - Peppa Pig

  • @ninjaking3677
    @ninjaking3677 2 lat temu

    Dose anyone else appreciate how many references swooz puts in his videos

  • @cecillewolters1995
    @cecillewolters1995 2 lat temu

    Gotta agree, girls have A LOT more options… if they’re hetero.
    My ex and me both did some online stuff, mostly Tinder, searching for girls. Zero to nothing.
    If we had a crush, they just never replied.
    She is bi, so my ex set it to guys too, instantly a lot of interest.
    So unfair man.
    And yes, it sucks that girls never learn to make the first step. One small thing can do so much and rejection is also just part of life. Learn that rejection is okay instead of avoiding it at all. Cuz people barely gain succes by avoiding, they do get succes by failing a lot, untill they don’t anymore

  • @Sassafrass95
    @Sassafrass95 2 lat temu +1

    speaking for myself and a few friends of mine, some girls want a guy who is just there for them, who wants to spend time with their girl and show her love out in public without caring about what others think, but that may not be the case for every woman or girl